This is not for everyone. But for a different reason than you might suspect.
To accomplish this transformation, to do what others say can’t be done, we will, together, need to
Think more deeply, intelligently, and profoundly
Influence and communicate more impactfully
And we do this to really enjoy your achievement.
Being a game changing leader is not a spectator sport. I love sports and deep game changing conversations; but getting on the court and having challenging conversations requires you to be willing to engage deeply, about what really matters to you. Willing to receive guidance and have enough repetitions and cycles of experience that your brain can be updated, or your brain will simply keep its current survival settings – especially in the face of uncertainty.
Brains only change when they need to, otherwise they prefer the existing way. Your brain is an energy miser and it won’t make shifts, real shifts to change the game unless you’re willing to endure some discomfit.
I’m not talking about aimless workaholic hard work for hard work sakes, but practicing so when the game is on the line, you are ready. It must matter to you to make the winning move. There has to be an urgent need to do something different.
There are two types of anxiety. Learning anxiety is the fear of trying something new; Survival anxiety is fear from realizing in order to survive you must change, do something different. My best clients have an urgent need to be the best.
As I’ve personally felt when looking for the next piece of the puzzle to perform at a higher level myself, “something has got to give.” I have to change my behavior, acquire an insight and tool that will make an immediate difference.
Your brain has acquired all your skill and performance by doing one thing. FOCUSING. This type of focusing is designed to trigger your brain’s success mechanism. But that Focus comes with some agitation, at times confusion, to find the right next move to win the game. The joy of this level is what the best of the best are seeking.
So if you are willing to have a genuine conversation, and thinking more deeply, intelligently, profoundly is meaningful to you, are seeking more joy and fulfillment in your life, and you have that ‘something has got to give’ please do click the button below and answer a few selected questions to enable me to understand where you are in your leadership and the areas and patterns you may need to do something about so I can personalize a winning move action-plan for you.